I pulled into Vidal’s
driveway on Monday morning, stopping the car just before I reached a big split
in the uneven concrete. I was a few
minutes early, so I decided not to go to the door right away. Vidal has five children, the youngest of whom
is just twelve days old! I figured he
and his wife would need all the time they could get to ready their little ones
for the day. However, the side screen
door flipped open right away. Vidal
stepped out, dressed in a crisp, button-down shirt and nice pants, a contrast
to the run-down house from which he emerged.
He smiled and waved, called, “Hasta luego!” to his wife, and walked
toward the car.
“Buenos días, Hermana,” he
said as he climbed into the passenger seat.
And
we were off. This morning, Vidal was
going to share his story.
I’d
been asked to do a presentation about immigration for the intercommunity
novitiate class in Cincinnati. While I
could offer insights from my years of working with migrants, I knew that
nothing could replace the testimony of someone who has lived migration. Vidal, a parishioner of the church where I
minister, agreed to accompany me.
Vidal
started by telling us about his life in Guatemala. He was born into economic poverty in a small
town in the country. Most people were
subsistence farmers. Vidal never knew
his father, and his mother took little interest in him. His grandparents raised him. He desperately
wanted to go to school, but his family couldn’t afford the supplies. He only went to first grade, and then, he
began to work.
He
worked throughout his whole young life, making the equivalent of $1.50 per
day. As a teenager, he met his now
wife. The pair began planning a future
together, but he knew he’d never be able to support a family with what he could
make in his home country. At eighteen,
he decided to leave and travel north.
It
was a long, dangerous journey that involved walking through the desert for six
days, being deported once, and being swindled and abandoned in an unknown place
by a “coyote” who was supposed to help him.
He finally made it to Cincinnati, where some people from his hometown
had settled.
Here
in the U.S., life has been better, but not easy. Vidal described the difficulty of trying to
make a life in a place where they don’t know the language, where they can’t get
a real job, where they can’t get a driver’s license, and where many people wish
he wasn’t here. He, like many
immigrants, has worked long hours for little pay, mostly in landscaping and
janitorial services. It is tough, but he
hopes to stay here. The United States is all that his children know.
Perhaps
the most shocking part of the story is the resistance he and his fellow
Catholic Guatemalans faced in trying to find a parish. One parish told them
that they weren’t welcome because the parish “already had too many activities
going on.” A second parish offered a
similar response, but the school principal, a Sister of Charity, welcomed them
and at least offered them the school auditorium for worship.
For
about seven years, they hired their own Spanish-speaking priests and held Mass
in the school, never setting foot in the church building. Finally, three years ago, a new pastor came
and began the process of welcoming them fully into the parish.
When
we climbed back into the car after the class, I thanked Vidal for his courage
in sharing his profound witness.
He
said, “Thank you, too, Hermana, for giving me this opportunity. I never imagined that someone like me, an
immigrant with no education, would ever be invited to talk in front of
anybody!” He shook his head and then
smiled, “Doing that made me realize that I’m
worth something.”
My
heart broke and rejoiced in the same instance.
How sad that our world makes people feel like they aren’t worth anything;
what a gift it was to be part of a moment that reversed that for one person.
I
thought of Pope Francis’ words to Congress just a few weeks ago, “We must not be taken aback by [the] numbers [of
immigrants] but rather view them as persons, seeing their faces and listening
to their stories, trying to respond as best we can to their situation.”
I’m
so grateful for the faces I’ve seen and the stories I’ve heard. Walking with people like Vidal is a true
privilege – and a call to never tire of working for justice.
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