By Sr. Carlette Gentle, SCN, Perpetually Professed
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I have been struggling to think of what my Lenten abstinence would be this year. I could give up chocolate, or desserts, or junk food in general but what would that do? Will it impact the lives of others? Will it help me to be humbler to others? As these questions ran through my brain the word detox kept coming to mind. Detox, a word I have been hearing often in the diet world. I took time in prayer to reflect on this word since it did not seem to be going away. An unusual word, I thought to myself, to take to prayer but I did. Detox, is defined as a process or period of time in which one abstains from or rids the body of toxic or unhealthy substances. The more I reflected, the more this word made sense. It offered an opportunity for transformation and conversion. I spent time in prayer thinking what toxic or unhealthy substances should I rid my body, mind and soul of this lent? In quiet the list started to flow. I should rid myself of judgments, let loose of envy, hatred, anger and minimize stress. Will it be easy? Of course not but I will try. Working on ridding myself of these things through prayer, reflection and reaching out to others during this Lenten season will aid in the detox process that will help to transform me and empty me creating a place for God to dwell fully.
Sunday, March 1, 2020
Sunday, January 12, 2020
From the FOC to the HOC: Happy Ten Years!
Compiled by Sister Tracy Kemme, SC
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My first time to the House of Charity was for
Nuns Build 2013, and it was also my very first experience of the Charity
Federation. I will never forget entering the house to a bustling
kitchen and two long tables full of Sisters talking, laughing and breaking
bread together. I immediately felt I was among family, and continue to
feel that way every time I return to a warm welcome at the House of Charity. ~Annie Klapheke
Last Saturday marked the ten year
anniversary of the House of
Charity (HOC) in New Orleans, and we at the Future of Charity (FOC) blog want to
celebrate their milestone. We dedicate
this post to our visionary sisters who dreamed up the HOC and have sustained it
over a decade, impacting countless young adults, the city of New Orleans, and
the Charity
Federation – including, in a very special way, us who are newer members of
our congregations.
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Our first FOC gathering at the HOC, August 2014 |
The FOC has its roots at the House of Charity. The same sisters who dreamed up the
HOC also dreamed of connecting newer members across the Federation, and they eventually did, at the HOC in 2014. Sisters Claire Regan, Mary Lex Smith, Monica
Gundler, and Renee Rose welcomed us with open arms. Our beloved, now-deceased Sr. Janet Gildea led us in reflection on the movie Field of Dreams. Its famous quote, “If you build it, they will
come,” took on special power at the HOC, where more than a
thousand guests have "come" since our sisters “built” it in 2010. In this sacred space, Janet invited us to dream about collaborating
for the Charity mission – and one idea that emerged was this blog,
now more than five years running.
At the end of
the weekend, another dear sister that we’ve since lost, Marie Flowers, gushed, “I
finally feel like I have a ‘band’!” For
those of us who have entered our congregations with few peers, the FOC has been like our “band,” our entrance group, and the HOC has been our our gathering place, our home-base to which we return yearly. This past November, we were blessed once
again by the hospitality of the HOC’s current community, Sisters Monica Gundler,
Peg Johnson, and Vicki Lichtenauer. As always, we were nourished for the present and energized for our shared future.
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FOC at the HOC, November 2019 |
We are so grateful. And as a small token of our immense
gratitude, we, the members of the FOC, offer tribute here to the amazing HOC:
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In gratitude for being that place that holds the
past of our Charity Charism and the love of our sisters who have laid down our
foundation, the present of who we are in this defining moment, and the future
that might be uncertain yet is laden with a promise of hope and guidance from
God, happy 10th year anniversary, HOC! I am grateful for what you represent for
us women of Charity! ~Romina Sapinoso
©
The House of Charity is a wonderful example of
collaboration among the Charity Federation congregations. It weaves
hospitality, community, prayer, and service together for those who stay there. Whether I am visiting with the Future of
Charity or a college spring break service trip, I can feel the positive energy
and hope that emerges from the group experience, impelling all to continue building
the Kindom here on earth. ~Rejane Cytacki
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When I first stayed at the HOC in 2017, I had
already been accepted as a pre-postulant with the Daughters of Charity and knew
I would be living in New Orleans for my first year. Meeting and staying with
the Sisters at the HOC for that first service week was a blessing, as I
continued to be in contact with them throughout my time in NOLA. Being able to
pray, serve, and be involved in their activities added a lot to my year. Thank you, HOC, for your welcoming arms,
hospitable spirit, and atmosphere of invitation to me! ~Josephine
Lomasney
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Federation Come and Serve, Sept. 2017 |
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Every moment that I have encountered through
gathering at the HOC has provided a source of growth, hope and
faith in the journey as sisters of Charity.
~Hyeon Lee
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The first time that I went to the House of
Charity for the Daughters of Charity Search and Serve in 2016, I instantly felt
welcomed and loved. It was there that I first got to witness the Vincentian
Charism in action. The sisters there have always been so generous and
supportive of anyone who would walk through those doors, and for that I am very
thankful. To this day every time I visit the House of Charity it still feels
like home. ~Carissa Kulpa
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The House of Charity has been an integral part
of my discernment/formation journey. I initially experienced their warm
hospitality when I was first exploring a call to religious life, and since then
I’ve returned numerous times as a sister-in-formation and even as a companion
for other young women in discernment. The HOC is one of many "second
homes" that I am privileged to have, and I'm so proud to be in the Charity
family with the devoted and inspiring women who live and minister there. ~Whitney
Schieltz
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FOC at the HOC, September 2015 |
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The House of Charity has been a place where we
as younger sisters can gather under one roof and one name, no distribution
is needed. Great hospitality is always offered and a feeling of being at home
is always felt. Thank you HOC for always being there for us as younger members
in the federation. We are truly blessed.
~Carlette Gentle
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I’ve been lucky enough to participate in two
Nuns Builds and be hosted annually for Future of Charity gatherings. My first
Nuns Build, during novitiate, was an enlightening experience for me and the
other Federation Sisters present. After spending the week together, they proclaimed
that Tracy and I were “their” novices, too; we didn’t just belong to the
Cincinnati SCs. That was the first time I really knew it was true that my community
includes all my Federation Sisters. I’m so grateful to the HOC for facilitating
those kinds of encounters and giving the whole Federation a place to call home. ~Andrea Koverman
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I am so grateful for the collaborative ministry
of the House of Charity because it introduced me to the Sisters of Charity
Federation. This house offers a homey,
welcoming atmosphere where sisters from across the Federation can gather to
build relationships with each other and deepen our call to the charism of
Charity. ~Kara Davis
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I first came to the HOC in 2012, shortly after
deciding to take the plunge to become a Sister of Charity. I was still full of questions and,
truthfully, upset with God for asking me to “give up” other life options. That week praying, serving, and playing with
the HOC community was a turning point, reminding me why I was drawn to
religious life and setting my heart afire with courage and joy. Thank you, HOC, for your contagious witness
to Charity! ~Tracy Kemme
©
As we celebrate this HOC anniversary, I would
like to pay tribute to the wonderful hospitality offered by the staff! I started
attending Future of Charity gatherings there over 5 years ago to deepen my Federation
relationships, and getting to know the Charity charism lived among us has been
inspiring. The HOC has been a refuge to build support, relax, pray together as
well as to have a lot of fun together. May God continue to abundantly bless the
efforts of this ministry! ~Judy Donohue
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The HOC has always been a place of welcome and
hospitality. I treasure the opportunity to come together with newer
members in different stages of formation to share our dreams and ideas, and to
pray, play and support one another. I am also gifted by the many mentors
throughout the Charity Federation who walk with us and share in the journey of
Religious Life with spirit of Charity.
~Paris Slapikas
Happy 10 years, House of
Charity! We love you!
And we say YES with you to the next ten
wonderful years (and beyond)...
P.S. If you’ve never had the chance to visit the
House of Charity, check out Sr. Monica’s video tour (which she offered as part of the Charity Federation's series of Elizabeth Seton reflections) by clicking right here!
Sunday, December 15, 2019
Finding Life in Unexpected Places
By Sister Annie Klapheke, SC
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We are now half way through our Advent journey, this season
of hope and expectant waiting. This
year, I have been particularly struck by the words we have been hearing from the
prophet Isaiah and how these words speak of finding life in unexpected
places. A new bud, full of life, sprouting
from an old, dead stump (Isaiah 11:1). A
parched desert wasteland blooming forth with abundant flowers (Isaiah 35:1-2). What beautiful imagery for this season of
hope. A reminder that God can bring forth life from even the most desolate
situations. We see this also in the life
of Jesus: born to a couple in poverty and raised in the backwater down of
Nazareth; in his ministry, intentionally seeking out and raising up those who
were rejected by society; and ending on the cross, where eternal life was
found in the most unexpected of
places – through death.
I can think of situations in my own life and ministry where
life came from unexpected places.
·
I volunteer with the Ignatian Spirituality
Project, a program which offers retreats and spiritual reflection for women and
men in recovery from addiction. For some
of these women, they say that going to prison was the best thing that ever
happened to them, because it was in that moment of total desolation that they
turned to God.
·
My parish community is largely Guatemalan. When they first arrived at the parish, they
were not even allowed in the church.
With time and change, they have been welcomed with open arms. Now, baptisms of little Latino babies are a
frequent occurrence at our Sunday liturgies.
Those who were once shut out are now the flourishing life of the parish.
·
When I was in my mid-twenties and about to begin
my career, I was surprised by an invitation to consider religious life. I never could have imaged the abundant life I
would discover in the vows of obedience, poverty and celibacy.
During this season of Advent, we are invited not only to
wait, but to wait with attentiveness.
May our eyes be opened to the places where God is bringing forth life in
unexpected places.
Tuesday, November 19, 2019
Cleaning out Clogged Drains
By Sr. Judy Donohue, SC Federation Temporary Professed
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In early November, I noticed our garage gutters were clogged and not draining properly. I got a ladder, and pulled the bulk of the leaves out in one swipe. Immediately a gush of water plummeted down the pipe. It continued to drain for a while. Today, I thought what in me is clogged up, that is preventing the joy of the Spirit from flowing freely? Is it judgment, unforgiveness, pride, fear, expectations? God, whatever is blocking me from a more joyful life in my vocation, ministry, relationships, set me free. Clean out of me the leaves of competition, comparing, resentment and let the light and sunshine of the Spirit flow freely through. Letting the love of life, God and others flow ever greater is a gift worth seeking during this season of Thanksgiving. I’m grateful for God speaking to me through an act of service.
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In early November, I noticed our garage gutters were clogged and not draining properly. I got a ladder, and pulled the bulk of the leaves out in one swipe. Immediately a gush of water plummeted down the pipe. It continued to drain for a while. Today, I thought what in me is clogged up, that is preventing the joy of the Spirit from flowing freely? Is it judgment, unforgiveness, pride, fear, expectations? God, whatever is blocking me from a more joyful life in my vocation, ministry, relationships, set me free. Clean out of me the leaves of competition, comparing, resentment and let the light and sunshine of the Spirit flow freely through. Letting the love of life, God and others flow ever greater is a gift worth seeking during this season of Thanksgiving. I’m grateful for God speaking to me through an act of service.
Tuesday, November 12, 2019
Gathering in New Orleans

We did some planning of the FUTURE for the Future of Charity at our business meeting. We want to continue meeting and expand by inviting others to join in our group! The bonding and joyful times of laughter and conversations shared shows how loving one another is so life giving. We shared many delicious meals: a pizza made by Annie and Vicki, and on Sunday, PoBoy sandwiches at the PoBoy festival!

Wednesday, August 28, 2019
Sr. Whitney Schieltz, SC, Professes First Vows
Congratulations to Sister Whitney Schieltz who professed her first vows with the Sisters of Charity of Cincinnati on August 24th! The celebration Mass focused on the themes of baptism and the call to gospel living.
Whitney processed in carrying her original baptismal candle that her parents had saved from 1988, and her program cover featured an original design depicting the Jordan River.
It was a beautiful celebration with her community, family, and friends! Please continue to hold Whitney, and all the members of Future of Charity, in prayer as we continue in our initial and ongoing formation in the Sisters of Charity Federation.
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The Cincinnati Novitiate House community with the five sisters they've accompanied. |
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Other young sisters from within and beyond the archdiocese celebrated with Whitney. |
Wednesday, August 14, 2019
Lord, Teach Us to Pray
By Sr. Kara Davis, Daughter of Charity Under 10 Years Vocation
More shootings. More acts of violence rooted in hate. We respond, “Enough is enough! Pass me that petition! I will write yet another letter to my representatives.” We show up to vigils, to protests, uniting with our brothers and sisters with one voice: Enough is enough! We write posts on social media. Our Facebook news feed is flooded with messages of solitary and thoughts and prayers for various communities struck with the most recent devastation of violence. We will not stop uniting our voices, reaching out in solidarity, or taking action in various ways. And we most definitely will not stop praying.

In all of this, I find myself turning to God, but lost for words. I ponder, What is my prayer? Then I echo the disciple's words to Jesus pleading, "Lord, teach us to pray."
When our hearts are broken and we can’t
find the words,
Lord
teach us to pray.
When noise overpowers the stillness of silence,
Lord teach us to pray.
When destruction is rampant and peace can’t be found,
Lord teach us to pray.
When lies and confusion distort the truth,
When noise overpowers the stillness of silence,
Lord teach us to pray.
When destruction is rampant and peace can’t be found,
Lord teach us to pray.
When lies and confusion distort the truth,
Lord
teach us to pray.
When the darkness of sin casts a shadow on the goodness of humanity,
Lord teach us to pray.
When despair blinds our eyes of faith,
Lord teach us to pray.
When doubt darkens our flame of hope,
Lord teach us to pray.
When hate hardens our hearts made for love,
Lord teach us to pray.
Teach us to pray with words,
with silence,
with action,
with pondering.
Teach us to pray with friends,
with strangers,
with adversaries,
with advocates.
Teach us to pray with the witness of our lives,
with the choices we make,
with the places we show up,
with the people we meet.
Lord
teach us to pray with the events of our day,
as we discern your way:
a response of love,
an act of justice,
When the darkness of sin casts a shadow on the goodness of humanity,
Lord teach us to pray.
When despair blinds our eyes of faith,
Lord teach us to pray.
When doubt darkens our flame of hope,
Lord teach us to pray.
When hate hardens our hearts made for love,
Lord teach us to pray.
Teach us to pray with words,
with silence,
with action,
with pondering.
Teach us to pray with friends,
with strangers,
with adversaries,
with advocates.
Teach us to pray with the witness of our lives,
with the choices we make,
with the places we show up,
with the people we meet.
as we discern your way:
a response of love,
an act of justice,
all rooted deeply in a life of prayer.
Lord
teach us to pray.

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